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Feb 18

God heals relationships

BEFORE October 2008
UP until three months ago, I was still suffering emotionally and was in a state of depression, feeling unhappy most of the time, carrying a heavy heart filled with anxiety. I was going about my daily activities with the feeling of emptiness within me and of being unloved. I do have many friends, some very, very close friends who gave very good advices, my family & siblings (local & overseas) who gave me so much support and yet I was unhappy with everything in my life! It was so unbearable that I had to resort to fortune tellers and to feng shui masters, numerologists, astrologists to speak comfort into my life.

I thought they could tell me what to do that could change my life and make me happy. There was even one fortune teller who predicted correctly (seeing that look that hung on my face); that I suffered from ‘mental torture’ and the solution was to write into a daily diary. I followed her advice but the more I wrote; the more I cried and wallowed in self-pity that life has dealt me such a bad hand!

My relationship with my husband was at its worst; we hardly spoke to each other whilst walking in and out of the same bedroom and the same house. Words exchanged between us were never longer than 3 sentences; the criticisms he directed to me or the ‘verbal missiles’ (harsh words) I launched at him would drive the ‘rift’ between us wider and deeper. These were the daily highlights of our household. He found solace in “drinking sessions” at places where pretty young girls are aplenty; they would do anything for a free drink, dinner and RM100 ringgit tip? And of course, my revenge and my escapade was to find love and simulate that love elsewhere.

At home, I was always very ‘irritable’ and jumped at the way my husband and children spoke to/with me .I recall that everyday I wanted to die so as to end all the emotional pain I was experiencing. I was on the verge of divorcing my husband to end the emptiness and unhappiness I lugged within me everyday. I even thought to myself, that if I can’t make him happy I might as well release him to some other women who can make him happy, and vice versa.

So what happened that transformed me into what / who I am today? I now have so much joy & peace in me that amaze me beyond words. I am confident that my hubby loves me and I love him (like when we first met) and we have so much more patience with each other. Come to think of it, we’ve not had any disagreement(s) since November 2008! This is record-breaking!

AFTER November 2008
IT’S GOD’S HEALING of RELATIONSHIP which I am experiencing AND GOD SHOWED ME THE WAY! IT’S A MIRACLE…PRAISE GOD! IT HAS TO BE! In the past, I did things my way. And everyday I carried emotional pain, bitterness, unhappiness. But WHEN I LEARNED TO DO IT God’s way, I noticed that things just changed for the better.

In the month of October 2008, after being invited by a close friend to Amazing Grace Christian Fellowship Church and after 3 sessions of reading God’s word and praying to God (with/by Pastor James Doss) I made a commitment and surrendered my business, my relationships, my family, my life back to GOD! (I had accepted CHRIST & was baptized in water & by the Holy Spirit when I was 17 years old, but back-slided and the ‘worldly’ temptations took me away from GOD).

I prayed to God to heal my ‘intimate’ relationship with my husband because I have tried on my own efforts BUT could not do it; not only did GOD heal my relationship with my hubby, in November 2008, God even wiped away my memory and the bitterness I had buried in my heart – memories of my husband being with other women, when he abandoned me.

Only GOD knew ‘what’ to fix in the both of us. Previously, I would not allow my husband to touch me, because I would feel so disgusted. But now God has blessed both of us!

Earlier, I could not understand this ‘miracle” GOD had done between my husband and me. How a ‘broken’ relationship can turnaround 360 degrees over night. Was it because I prayed to GOD and asked Him to help me in my most desolate moment? If that were so, I have prayed so many times before, that same prayer to ask GOD to help me, over the last 15 years but nothing happened. So why did it happen now? What was different?

Then GOD explained it to me:-

  1. At Pastor James’ Sunday morning service.
    Genesis 41:51
    – Joseph named his firstborn Manasseh and said “It is because GOD has made me forget all my trouble and all my father’s household”.
    Genesis 41:52
    – The second son he named Ephraim and said, “It is because GOD has made me fruitful in the land of my suffering.”

    What GOD did to Joseph (thousands of years ago) GOD did for me! GOD made me forget all my toil and all my bitterness; and is blessing me in my own ‘house of my affliction’. Only God could have wiped out those hurting memories which I, with my human mind tried to erase BUT failed. PRAISE GOD FOR HIS FAITHFULNESS!!

  2. God pointed to me in His words (the bible):-
    Matthew 6:32
    – For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them.
    Matthew 6:33
    – But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.

Now I can make the connection, I recalled, when Pastor James prayed with me (3 months ago), pastor reminded me to get right with GOD and I did just that immediately, that same night when I told God I want to live my life His way (not my way) from that day forward! And what’s more wonderful is that GOD (through His prophecies spoken to me at Amazing Grace Church on 31 Dec 2008) told me that he has not finished with His blessings upon me, there are more to come and whatever I ask of Him, which is according to His will in heaven, He will give it to me! I praise GOD for His LOVE for me!!

I’m not hurting anymore, I wake every morning thanking GOD and I go to bed every night thanking GOD that he’s giving me so much peace, joy, happiness and love in my heart.

YOU CAN HAVE THAT TOO; if you are currently in depression/feeling suicidal and hurting from relationships!! Allow God to touch your life and work that miracle for you too!

I have submitted my husband to God in prayer and I’ve asked God to deal with him, as he’s answerable to God (not to me). Now when I look at my husband and children, I praise GOD because I was that close to loosing my beloved family. GOD stopped me from taking that route of ‘divorce’ and healed my relationship with my husband.

God taught me that all I had to do was so simple – JUST walk ‘RIGHT’ before Him and to TRUST Him to do the rest in HIS WAY and in His timing! Now that I have tasted that, I assure you, THAT IS THE ONLY WAY!

John 15:7
“If you abide in Me (Jesus) and My words abide in you, you will ask what you desire and it shall be done for you”.


by Sister Suzana
8th January 2009

Posted by AmazingGrace. Filed under Testimonies.

224 Responses to “God heals relationships”

  1. Please help me pray for my relationship it has been broken after 10 year together with 3 children

    Posted by Amoy on January 3rd, 2016 at 10:31 am

  2. Please pray for God to restore my relationship with my man Walter….

    Posted by vanashree pillay schleicher on January 3rd, 2016 at 6:12 pm

  3. Please restore my relationship with MN I rebuke temptation social media alcohol females from my future husbsnd…I need working on also JESUS work. On the both of us in the name of jesus MN and VSC you know what we need JESUS bring us back together Lord then we can do great things for you clean us up Lord No negativity…AMEN

    Posted by VSC on January 19th, 2016 at 8:46 am

  4. Hello,I’m Lorna. I don’t even know where to start from. I read your testimony and I was moved deeply. Currently the man I love is on a downward spiral and I don’t know what to do. We have been together making 5 years now and he has a child out of wedlock but our relationship is crumbling,he is depressed and allowed the devil to take hold and run miles in his life. I don’t even have the strength to pray because I don’t know what exactly to ask God for. More still I feel like my faith is wearing out,as this has happened in the past before,I am in need of help. A miracle just like sister Suzana.

    Thank you,Lorna.

    Posted by Lorna Queenie on January 21st, 2016 at 2:46 pm

  5. Please pray for me to have peace, happiness with my partner, I love him so much we were supposed to get married last year December but that didn’t happen,please Lord have mercy on me because I still need him in my life and continue with the marriage

    Posted by Nthofeela on January 27th, 2016 at 6:44 pm

  6. My name is Roselyn and I ask Jesus to heal my relationship which has been broken by jealous ladies and friends of my partner who have ruined my relationship with my partner. I ask Lord Jesus Christ to restored my relationship with my partner and give him courage to call me back home in Iesus name Amen.

    Posted by Roselyn Chand on February 6th, 2016 at 10:33 pm

  7. I ask you all to pray from my ex Fred and I as we are on separate paths at the current time. I love this man and this is the only man I have ever been truly in love with. I know are struggles, but I have to believe that God does have a plan for us. I know my love for him is true and I just pray that with the power of pray and a true Miracle we will be back together, and we will have God first in our relationship.

    Posted by Jacque on February 16th, 2016 at 3:30 am

  8. Pls pray 4 me & help me get my boyfriend back.. I really love him and I don’t want to loose him,I don’t know what happened to him .. I caused his car to have sum scratches ..& he got so crossed and since that day he want nothing to do with me ..I even offers to fix the car but he refuse.. Its been two months now ..plz pray 4 me I’m afraid I’ll relapse as I was treated 4 depression last tym… Pls

    Posted by Adelaide on March 11th, 2016 at 2:44 am

  9. Pray for restore my relationship with my partner Alvyn ,let Lord work on our relationship, cast away all negative words from his and mine friend, let us fall in love just like the day one we meet till eternity, bless our relationship….Amen

    Posted by Ice on March 13th, 2016 at 1:16 am

  10. God please heal all our broken pieces or please take me home. I can’t do this anymore. I feel like a monster

    Posted by Michelle on March 19th, 2016 at 9:34 am

  11. I pray for deliverance from all evil and to also change my boyfriend William who is hurting me a lot……

    Posted by tina on March 19th, 2016 at 8:49 pm

  12. wonderful testimony

    Posted by Esther on March 25th, 2016 at 1:34 pm

  13. Please pray for my broken relationship with Kevin. may the Lord restore us in Jesus name. Amen

    Posted by Catherine on March 26th, 2016 at 6:19 pm

  14. I pray in the name of Jesus, that my broken relationship with my Partner ( Thabang )is healed, God our father please reach out your hand to him, let me and him be the loving couple that we were before. I rebuke all curses/ spells that were cast on him, father God I give everything to you. Help me to stay positive, and hold on to my faith.
    I pray for a good paying job as well- I seem to be hitting a brick wall every time I apply for a job. In the name of Jesus I pray that you please open gates of employment for me, I ask this in your loving name- Amen.

    Posted by Anon. on April 5th, 2016 at 3:28 pm


    Posted by Gary Morgan on April 7th, 2016 at 1:28 pm

  16. Pl pray for me to restore my relationship

    Posted by Mathew on April 17th, 2016 at 3:15 am

  17. Please pray for me that God may restore my relationship with my man Ken,and that we may forgive each other and grow closer to Him.

    Posted by claris on May 2nd, 2016 at 2:18 pm

  18. Please pray for my relationship,we have been together for three years and my love lives without a reason,he stops coming to the church we worshipped before.He has been confused by materialistic things

    Posted by Ivy on May 9th, 2016 at 4:32 am

  19. Please god i come to you on bending knees please help build and restore me and my boyfriend relationship i rebuke all bad thoughts thats going through his mind please god lay hands on both of us please God im ready to give my relationship over to you please lord save us please let him fall back in love with me when we first started im ready god i trust you in your name i pray amen

    Posted by shaneka on May 9th, 2016 at 8:25 am

  20. Pray for my ex and I.i love him so much and we were so close to getting back together but I don’t know one day he stopped acting like he used to with he likes another girl and it hurts deeply to be without him I’ve been praying for a long time for God to bring him back to me.

    Posted by Leah on May 10th, 2016 at 8:17 am


    Posted by Dalz on May 13th, 2016 at 7:48 am

  22. I come again anyone who sees this may you please pray for me and my ex he has. A girlfriend but I know we were meant tone together I’ve been praying for him to come back to me for a long time I will thank god is advance and I have full faith God will bring him back to me

    Posted by Leah on May 21st, 2016 at 6:38 am

  23. Dear God
    I love a man so much but he sees me as if I am vermin.I want him to be my husband and I want him to love me until the end of our days.Also my mother must also be his mother, as I love her with all my heart.Please pray that he will love me unconditionally.paula

    Posted by paula on May 22nd, 2016 at 4:12 am

  24. Please pray that my ex and I will work things out and get back together and he will let go of that young girl he’s going around

    Posted by Tisha Gregory on May 26th, 2016 at 9:26 pm

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