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Feb 18

God heals relationships

BEFORE October 2008
UP until three months ago, I was still suffering emotionally and was in a state of depression, feeling unhappy most of the time, carrying a heavy heart filled with anxiety. I was going about my daily activities with the feeling of emptiness within me and of being unloved. I do have many friends, some very, very close friends who gave very good advices, my family & siblings (local & overseas) who gave me so much support and yet I was unhappy with everything in my life! It was so unbearable that I had to resort to fortune tellers and to feng shui masters, numerologists, astrologists to speak comfort into my life.

I thought they could tell me what to do that could change my life and make me happy. There was even one fortune teller who predicted correctly (seeing that look that hung on my face); that I suffered from ‘mental torture’ and the solution was to write into a daily diary. I followed her advice but the more I wrote; the more I cried and wallowed in self-pity that life has dealt me such a bad hand!

My relationship with my husband was at its worst; we hardly spoke to each other whilst walking in and out of the same bedroom and the same house. Words exchanged between us were never longer than 3 sentences; the criticisms he directed to me or the ‘verbal missiles’ (harsh words) I launched at him would drive the ‘rift’ between us wider and deeper. These were the daily highlights of our household. He found solace in “drinking sessions” at places where pretty young girls are aplenty; they would do anything for a free drink, dinner and RM100 ringgit tip? And of course, my revenge and my escapade was to find love and simulate that love elsewhere.

At home, I was always very ‘irritable’ and jumped at the way my husband and children spoke to/with me .I recall that everyday I wanted to die so as to end all the emotional pain I was experiencing. I was on the verge of divorcing my husband to end the emptiness and unhappiness I lugged within me everyday. I even thought to myself, that if I can’t make him happy I might as well release him to some other women who can make him happy, and vice versa.

So what happened that transformed me into what / who I am today? I now have so much joy & peace in me that amaze me beyond words. I am confident that my hubby loves me and I love him (like when we first met) and we have so much more patience with each other. Come to think of it, we’ve not had any disagreement(s) since November 2008! This is record-breaking!

AFTER November 2008
IT’S GOD’S HEALING of RELATIONSHIP which I am experiencing AND GOD SHOWED ME THE WAY! IT’S A MIRACLE…PRAISE GOD! IT HAS TO BE! In the past, I did things my way. And everyday I carried emotional pain, bitterness, unhappiness. But WHEN I LEARNED TO DO IT God’s way, I noticed that things just changed for the better.

In the month of October 2008, after being invited by a close friend to Amazing Grace Christian Fellowship Church and after 3 sessions of reading God’s word and praying to God (with/by Pastor James Doss) I made a commitment and surrendered my business, my relationships, my family, my life back to GOD! (I had accepted CHRIST & was baptized in water & by the Holy Spirit when I was 17 years old, but back-slided and the ‘worldly’ temptations took me away from GOD).

I prayed to God to heal my ‘intimate’ relationship with my husband because I have tried on my own efforts BUT could not do it; not only did GOD heal my relationship with my hubby, in November 2008, God even wiped away my memory and the bitterness I had buried in my heart – memories of my husband being with other women, when he abandoned me.

Only GOD knew ‘what’ to fix in the both of us. Previously, I would not allow my husband to touch me, because I would feel so disgusted. But now God has blessed both of us!

Earlier, I could not understand this ‘miracle” GOD had done between my husband and me. How a ‘broken’ relationship can turnaround 360 degrees over night. Was it because I prayed to GOD and asked Him to help me in my most desolate moment? If that were so, I have prayed so many times before, that same prayer to ask GOD to help me, over the last 15 years but nothing happened. So why did it happen now? What was different?

Then GOD explained it to me:-

  1. At Pastor James’ Sunday morning service.
    Genesis 41:51
    - Joseph named his firstborn Manasseh and said “It is because GOD has made me forget all my trouble and all my father’s household”.
    Genesis 41:52
    - The second son he named Ephraim and said, “It is because GOD has made me fruitful in the land of my suffering.”

    What GOD did to Joseph (thousands of years ago) GOD did for me! GOD made me forget all my toil and all my bitterness; and is blessing me in my own ‘house of my affliction’. Only God could have wiped out those hurting memories which I, with my human mind tried to erase BUT failed. PRAISE GOD FOR HIS FAITHFULNESS!!

  2. God pointed to me in His words (the bible):-
    Matthew 6:32
    - For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them.
    Matthew 6:33
    - But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.

Now I can make the connection, I recalled, when Pastor James prayed with me (3 months ago), pastor reminded me to get right with GOD and I did just that immediately, that same night when I told God I want to live my life His way (not my way) from that day forward! And what’s more wonderful is that GOD (through His prophecies spoken to me at Amazing Grace Church on 31 Dec 2008) told me that he has not finished with His blessings upon me, there are more to come and whatever I ask of Him, which is according to His will in heaven, He will give it to me! I praise GOD for His LOVE for me!!

I’m not hurting anymore, I wake every morning thanking GOD and I go to bed every night thanking GOD that he’s giving me so much peace, joy, happiness and love in my heart.

YOU CAN HAVE THAT TOO; if you are currently in depression/feeling suicidal and hurting from relationships!! Allow God to touch your life and work that miracle for you too!

I have submitted my husband to God in prayer and I’ve asked God to deal with him, as he’s answerable to God (not to me). Now when I look at my husband and children, I praise GOD because I was that close to loosing my beloved family. GOD stopped me from taking that route of ‘divorce’ and healed my relationship with my husband.

God taught me that all I had to do was so simple – JUST walk ‘RIGHT’ before Him and to TRUST Him to do the rest in HIS WAY and in His timing! Now that I have tasted that, I assure you, THAT IS THE ONLY WAY!

John 15:7
“If you abide in Me (Jesus) and My words abide in you, you will ask what you desire and it shall be done for you”.

GOD BLESS.

by Sister Suzana
8th January 2009

Posted by AmazingGrace. Filed under Testimonies.

39 Responses to “God heals relationships”

  1. I need prayer. It’s been two years since my wife divorced me. I cry… often. We have two children but this really isn’t about them. In the back of my mind it concerns me to have them growing up without me in the house as the primary male role model but ultimately, I just want my marriage restored.

    The devil comes to kill steal and destroy… that’s pretty much what happened. Outside issues caused me to harden my heart in our first three years of marriage, getting worse month by month. I had so much anger and hurt that the real me retreated inside and a monster took my place.

    When she and i see each other, it’s obvious to everyone there is something there but she has held on to the bad things so hard that she now can’t let it go. She says that we are poison… i think in reality, we were poisoned.

    I love my wife and i never really got a chance to show her. See, two weeks before we were married, my mother took me to court to take custody of my older kids – she even teamed up with their mother to do so – because she didn’t like who i chose to marry…. That kinda changed me… led me to make terrible choices and to move my new wife away from her family so i could be closer to mine and in the process, the man she fell in love with was gone.

    I pray for direction… the deepest desire of my heart is for my family to be reconcilled. However, if it’s not going to happen, i beg God to remove this torture from my mind and heart. I love Misty, with all my being. I really don’t know what to do or how to go on, nor even how to pray. So, i ask you, in the spirit of paul, pray for me.

    God Bless,

    Don

    Posted by Don on May 28th, 2012 at 11:20 pm

  2. I pray to god to bring my family back together. I was to be married to my fiance noemi we have a daughter together my other ch ildren love her so much she help me raised them for 7years. We have been separated for 2 years almost. It has devasated my children as well as me I still love her very much and have made many changes in my life. I know that I can love her the way god intended and I truly regret hurting her. Her family has been against our relationship due to some of my actions. I’m falling apart I miss them so much. I pray for us to repair our relationship daily and allow her to forgive me for all the things I did wrong so we can rebuild trust and move forward. Please pray for me.

    Posted by sucar on June 24th, 2012 at 10:01 am

  3. I don’t know this church nor do I know the people who posted these messages. There must have been a reason though for me to run into your website. And Don, I will pray for you and your family situation. I was abandoned a year and a half ago by my husband. Our children, twins, were not even born yet. We are getting divorced – well, there is no other possibility because he left me to be with another woman. I love my husband and pray for his salvation. I no longer pray for our relationship to be restored because this is not possible any more.

    God bless you.
    Simit

    Posted by simit on June 28th, 2012 at 3:37 am

  4. Ive been a widow 13years and have not found love since. I’m 47. I met a man about 3 months ago. I told him u didn’t want a relationship I was scared) but we dated. Now he seems to have pulled away no longer pursuing. I let him know I like him and he has gotten busy with his life. I haven’t seen him in almost a month and we have barely spoken. I feel he would help bring me closer to Gid and be a good step dad to my daughter. Please pray God will open his heart to me like it was in the beginning.

    Posted by Sonya on August 1st, 2012 at 4:44 am

  5. Dear Don,

    I will pray for you Don. You are not alone.

    Without getting into many details, my mind is usually thinking 1000 miles an hour. God I feel has been working to break done my walls and open me up too him and his plan for me. In the past week, my mind is at peace. It surreal my friend. And all I had to do was ask God to help me. I told him ” I NEED YOU GOD” and he listened. This is just the beginning for me.

    I do not have the answers for you to make this all better but I feel that God is there. Please be patient, please keep praying, BELIEVING with all your heart and soul that God is listening. I’ve been reading that God works at his own pace. He may be working on healing you and your wife right at this very moment. So that when he has healed the both of you, you’ll be rejoined together. From my understanding friend, God DOES NOT want your wife and you to be separated.

    Praying for you,

    Jody

    Posted by Jody on August 23rd, 2012 at 3:41 pm

  6. I truly believe that whatever pain, sufferings and challeges we face in life, are not meant to break us but they are meant to make us. (Psalm 84:7 & Isaiah 40:29 says it all). Remeber that in the book of Jeremiah 18, God is our Potter and we are the clay, he moulds us according to the design that he wants, he shapes us & breaks us and remoulds us again into the perfect image that he desires us to be like. The best that we can do as his sons & daughters is to wait on the Lord! Isaiah 40:31.

    Posted by Sibpngile on October 17th, 2012 at 8:28 pm

  7. I am hurting right now so much as the love of my life is not speaking to me now….Both of us are Christians…only I have not walked with God for a long time…or read his word….I felt afraid to trust God with anything…even my relationship…I grew up in an alcoholic home with abuse around me and neglect. I learned to trust only myself and always was on guard. But without God in my life my fears of being hurt again came out in doubts towards my man and words that hurt him. He forgave me many times and wanted to try as he still had feelings for me….But the devil would creep into my thoughts with fears again and once again I would mess up with my man in words…not always mean words in intent but words that spoke to me not really trusting him ect….and this hurt him so much enough to pull away from me. It has been 2 weeks now of silence….I have turned back to God and his word and glad I have…..I care so much for my man and do love him so much….in my heart and my own spirit I know I can trust him so much and that he is the most wonderful man God has ever put into my life ! he is gentle in spirit and forgiving,loving and kind… I remember his tears when I hurt him the way I have….and how many time he forgave me and wanted to try again. This last time that caused the separation and silence happened because something he said to me 8 months ago and something recent he said sounded like two different stories….Well satan came into my mind and flooded it with thoughts that my man must have lied to me…So I confronted him instead of just asking for clarification kindly…. he was hurt at thinking I was calling him a liar…..he has always tried to live pleasing to God and trying to live right..so it hurt him alot ! I know satan played on my fears to destroy what God put in my life and it was my own fault as I wasn’t walking with God and trusting my own self ect.. I am hurting so much for what I did to my man, and what I did to God, and for what I hurt between my man and I. I hurt the love and hopes we wanted so much with each other….I did this !!! my hurt is i so much pain I cannot find words to describe it…. the separation between my man and I and his distance and probably feeling of giving up on me makes me feel so depressed and heavy with shame for what I have done.. God forgives me but I am still depressed and thought even of ending my life.. still do everyday…but I hang on and pray so much that God can heal this relationship and restore it.. I am not the sum of my mistakes and the real me that God created would never want to hurt my man in anyway….. I know with God I can treat him the very best in every way and give him the love he wanted all along. I know me very well and I will never love any other man….I would rather be alone and hurt inside the rest of my life than be without the man I love or with anyone esle !
    Can God heal the relationship and restore this after what I have done ? Does God see what is really in my heart and how much I do love the man he gave me ? I want another chance so much…..I feel it inside me so powerfully that this time is going to be so amazing and I am going to be the most wonderful woman to him…. I just know this in my heart and spirit and so eager !! God has me now back to stay……and I am now so ready……..I can do this !! God please heal this situation , bring his love back to me….speak to his heart that this is the time things will be right between us and not to give up on me….open his heart Lord as just as satan hardened mine and tried to close it…I am sure right now after I hurt my man that Satan is probably doing the same to my man…..so that he would not see that this is the time for things to be right…..fear, doubts…God please draw my man back to me so I can show you and him the changed me….. it can be so wonderful from this day forward and I will treat him like a treasure that I think he is ! God forgive me please and give me this chance…..it is still early and only 2 weeks….Please God let there be hope in the faith I have that you can heal this and restore this…. This relationship means alot to me….I need this chance Lord to make thing right…. my heart will never be a peace unless I can have the chance to try…it will always bother me and affect my spirituality and burden my heart….Can a woman who has been such a fool have this chance to make thing right with my man….I know I can fill him with the love and joy he always wanted with me God..please let me try…bless us Lord God! Thank you !!

    Posted by Gail on October 28th, 2012 at 2:00 am

  8. Dear Lord, pray for a better paying job to sustain my family, please lord heal my relationship with my partner he has turned aganist me to a point that he was rude to me. I still love him and he says he misses me but i still think about the bad he has done to me. my heart is still hurting. please help to forgive him my Lord that we can be reunited again.

    In Jesus name Amen.

    Posted by Portia on November 15th, 2012 at 8:26 pm

  9. I ask God to walk with me talk with me and guide me and my children in the right direction. I recently seperated from my fiance 9/28/2012 and still not together. I think i prayed too much and the devil just had to step in but i’m trusting and believing that god will mend and bring our family back together and we will all walk upright before him! I’m asking god to deal with him and lead him and guide him so that i can follow and we both can raise our beautiful daughters to be successful and live by god!! I trust and believe and receive in Jesus name AMEN

    Posted by OSha on December 15th, 2012 at 2:13 pm

  10. Dear Lord, I am praying for an opportunity to show you and my ex that I have changed and that I am ready to be your willing servant and act like a true child of God. In the past I have acted rashly, fought out with anger, said some cruel and hurtful things, and yes, I even slapped my ex when he was being extremely cold to me… I regret all those things and more. I know I am young and not perfect in any way, but I want to be for you God. And for him. I know that issues from my past have affected me and have influenced the way I treat him. I know what I need to change now to get my man back. I know what I need to do to be who I want to be for you God, for myself, and for him. Please Lord, bring me and my baby back together. Soften his heart to me, and make him see that I truly am capable of change. His love is what made me realize just how much better I can be. I love him with all of my heart, and am hoping we will be together soon and he will forgive me… Please pray for me.

    Posted by Kayla on December 18th, 2012 at 3:42 pm

  11. Gail, your story sounds a lot like mine. I am hurting and struggling so much since my break up, just over 2 weeks ago now. We were in a long distance relationship. We are not married, though in my heart and spirit I have always seen him as my husband, and he would say the same about me. He has not contacted me at all since the day of our breakup, he won’t even come online on our messenger. It is hurting so much and I have prayed each day for the Lord to bring him back to me and restore our relationship. How we met online and everything we’ve been through, from day one I believed God lead us to one another, and until the day I leave this earth I will always say he was my miracle God gave to me. He was just that perfect for me. I’ve grown to love him so very much and I don’t think I could ever love another man. Though we aren’t married, I hope and pray the Lord will see us as such because that’s how devoted I am to him. I pray that he will keep us together like he would a husband and wife. I get very scared at times because I don’t know if he will treat us the same way as a married couple. I feel I will always have this deep hole in my heart if I never get to speak to him again. It is hurting and getting harder each day that goes by with no contact. It feels like, each passing day he could be forgetting me more and more. Being long distance like this, I can’t see anything and have to depend on God completely. Please Lord, bring my husband back to me.

    Posted by Leah on January 17th, 2013 at 12:40 am

  12. Hi Leah,

    A few months ago I managed to trash a relationship with the woman I truly love, planned to be with and have a child by. We are separated by a 8 hour flight and I understand what you mean about the long distance.

    Of course you are not alone because, as you point out, God is walking with you and here for you. I am still learning but coming to realise that God is the only hope in situations like ours and that the first thing to be done is to get ever closer to him and pray that he is working in the hearts and lives of the people we love to move them toward possible reconciliation.

    I pray that you will find the strength in God to pull you through and that he will work in your life and that of your partner to bring you together in a new and ever more loving relationship in his sight.

    Take care

    Posted by Mark on May 5th, 2013 at 12:38 pm

  13. Hi Gail,

    I admire your courage, resolution, and strength. How have you been?

    Posted by MW on August 12th, 2013 at 9:15 am

  14. Dear whoever will give me a response,

    Im 17, in a deep relationship with another girl. I’m Christian, shes Hindu, and we both promised that shell convert to christianity. We had alot of hard times, managed to pull it off for 1 year and a half. This person was not just a girlfriend but to me, a wife, we even spoke about getting married. Whenever we had a problem the one mistake ive made was not asking god for help. It’s been almost 4 months since the break up and I feel so dead. Ive been thinking if suiciding would be correct but only God decides whether I should live or not. Every morning i cry, just randomly thinking about it i would cry. Now, let me tell you what happened. So one day, my gf’s cousin tells her e saw me holding hands with another girl. Which isn’t true at all. An d i sorta laughed when she said that cause it was ridiculous. She even claims to have seen me with another somewhere. I’m telling you, nome of that ive done. None. We’ve talked alot ever since but after one point I got mad cause I was tired of being accused for somthing i never did in the first place. I even had thoughts of crving her name on my hand. Im so hurt, i tried forgetting her but i cant and i know i won’t she was like a gift of god to me, she made me more nice and taught me true love. idk what to do at this point and I really need help. I promised to God my first love will be my only marriage and im keeping my word i dont wanna let God down. i’ve said lots of bad things to my ex, and i regret that now. Can someone please help me ? Or advise me :/, my life is at a critical point an in need of advice.

    Posted by Kevin on August 17th, 2013 at 8:40 pm

  15. Hi everyone, I just need you to pray with me that God should save my marriage. My husband has been dealing with me very hashly, he accuses of witchcrafty and that I want to see him destroyed. He calls me names , he tells me to start catering for the family. I hav 2 kids. He has asked me severally to leave but I know that God does not want seperation or devoce especially am concern about my kids that I don’t want them to grow up without a father. Just last night he threw me out of house that I slept in the car awhile before he came for me, he condemn and critisizes me all the times, he doesnot care how I feel at a point in time but always want sex. I have been patient with him and praying but its like the more I try the worse the situation get, it affecting my health because am stressed and depressed. I am from Nigeria in Africa. I just don’t kno else to do to help save the marriage, I don’t want devoce only because of my children but staying together is a lot of pain for me and am afraid.but the pastor of my local baptist church advice me not to give up but am sincerely tired and confuse and don’t know why God is not helping me.I feel very lonely and heavily burdened. Pls children of God I need your support and advices. I am a believer, I want a christian home. Thank you

    Posted by Christiana on September 6th, 2013 at 11:18 pm

  16. Mothers day weekend my husband walked out on me. We have been together 12 years and there is a very big age difference with me being the eldest. Our marriage has had its ups and downs and we have separated before but found our way back to each other. This time it feels so different. Before we use to fight a lot this time we were not fighting at all. I thought every thing was fine. He left for work one night kissed me said I love you and never came back. The situation was complicated because he only moved across the street. He is a volunteer fire fighter and we were renting a house owned by the fire department so when he left he just went across the street to stay at the station. It was like everything he did was putting it in my face. We never really went to many places that were far from the station as he didn’t want to miss a cal. Now he was never there on the weekends in stead he was out with friends male and female and was drinking and get drunk all the time, that was just not him. When we would see each other it was like he looked right through me didn’t even see me. Lines of communication all but broke down. He quit paying the rent and we were already behind so we got evicted in July and at the end of August he moved back into the house we were evicted from. I have not worked in 4 years as I have been battling breast cancer and the effects from the drugs and all the surgeries. he started feeling bad I guess and started giving me a little bit of money but not enough to live on. We would only communicate via emails or instant message I didn’t have a phone number. In the last month in a half he has messaged me more and most of the times its just to chit chat. Three months of not talking on the phone he has called a few times now. It is always about something important but then its like he doesn’t want to hang up. It really confuses me because its always during the week not the weekends and I am guessing its because of his girl friend. He has taken her to family functions and everybody we know has seen them together. He claims they are just friends but they are very close and he didn’t know her before he left its only been since July. I sometimes thing he is conflicted and I know he is being influenced by his family and friends. He doesn’t know the Lord in fact he has never gone to church and knows nothing about the bible. I Love him very much and there is a divorce pending. Its just everything has moved so fast. I pray every night and talk to the lord during the day. I pray that he saves my marriage. I pray that he will touch my husbands heart and win over the hold Satan has on him. I pray that he breaks what ever bonds this girl has with him. I am asking that you pray for all these thing too. I know all things are possible with the Lord and I just need to be patient its just very hard especially when I know he is with someone else. My heart is breaking.

    Posted by melanie on September 16th, 2013 at 12:52 am

  17. This reply is to Kevin on August 17.
    Kevin you said you wanted a reply from anyone who would write to you. I am a 56 year old grandmother, but I think I can say something that might help to ease your pain. You say you are 17 years old. At your age some may say you are too young to know about love, but I don’t believe that. However, you say you are a christian and your girlfriend is Hindu. Kevin, God says in His word that we should not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. In John 3:3, scripture says we “must be born again” Kevin, are you a true born again christian or do you assume you are christian because you were born a certain religion, or were born in America, or whatever? I ask that because at your age I thought the same thing. The Word also says “if we confess with our mouth and believe in our hearts”, we will be saved. Becoming a christian is a conscious thing, not something that “happens to us”. This girl said she would be converted to christianity.. If she has not done it yet she probably has no real intentions to do so. If she really wanted to have a relationship with God she possibly would have done so by now. The best thing you can do for her is to pray that her eyes will be opened. God loves you both. He could have allowed this to happen not to hurt you but to save you years of regret.
    The pain will subside, and through prayer, God will send you someone who is just right for you. You may not think so now. I was “in love” with a man at your age and thought he was the only one for me. But 4 years later I met someone else. He is a good and gentle man and we’ve been married 35 years. Our marriage is not perfect, there is no such thing. But we love each other. Please, Kevin, first of all, are you a true christian? If not, pray this prayer and you will be “God, I ask your Son Jesus Christ to come into my heart and be my Lord and Saviour. I also ask you to work in the hearts of all my loved ones and set them free to also truly know You”,
    this is based on a relationship with God, not on a religion. I pray for you to have a long, healthy, happy life from this day forward. Troubles come but the Word of the Lord stands forever. Be blessed and encouraged, Kevin, God has a great plan for you!!!!

    Posted by Linda Bijeaux on September 17th, 2013 at 7:53 am

  18. In the past year I’ve lost my boyfriend to a horrible breakup, got a DUI due to a terrible choice I made, lost my car and license, lost my profsssional license, lost my savings, lost my sister and best friend to diabetes, lost all my friends, lost my job, did time in jail, and now am jobless, broke, hugely in debt with bad credit, no one wants to hire a criminal and I have no transportation even to interviews if I did get called. I’m alone, in my house, 24 hrs a day, 7 days a week. I love and miss the man I met 3 yrs ago, and our relationship is very broken because of me. I’ve gone from being a single mom with a college degree and a wonderful job, paying my bills with excellent credit, in a relationship with the man I love, to this. I battle deep, deep depression and despair. I never know if my rent can be paid….God has seen me thru this far and I’ve pled the blood of Jesus over my home and family and future and ex-boyfriend, I have deeper faith, I am the only person in my exs life that prays for him, the only one, and I do so constantly, even though the enemy sends horrible attacks when I do. I’m trying to hold on thru this, but in the past 2 yrs I’ve moved 3 times, been in 2 serious car accidents, lost my beloved dog and lost my brother unexpectedly, this in addition to all I’ve gone thru the past year and am still growing thru. I know I sinned with the DUI and deserve what I’ve lost, I deserved even worse, and I repent for that daily. Haven’t forgiven myself yet, I hurt my kids, my mom, innocent people. I know God loves me and hears me, I know He loves Ben, my ex boyfriend, even more than I do, and He pulls me to not stop praying for Ben. I know I have hope because I love and trust God. But I am exhausted. Every day is a lonely, lonely struggle. I’ve wondered if I should give up and die but love my kids too much. I know satan is fighting hard for me, for my very life, I just don’t know why. If someone else could help me pray for Ben, and maybe pray for me, too, maybe I could rest and breathe a bit. My children are protected by God, I pray for them daily and nightly, I pray to not lose my home, I have nowhere to go and no job, no money, no car. I pray to not feel trapped and like a failure. I pray for restoration of my hopes, dreams, of my life, of my heart and spirit, and of my relationship with Ben. I’d appreciate prayers. Thank you.

    Posted by ann on September 23rd, 2013 at 2:20 am

  19. My husband and I were married 24 years and he decided to divorce me when I wasn’t doing the way I should as a wife according to him, we married when I was 18 and he was 20. It was all great only for about 3 or 4 months, then it was like he woke up a different person on day, he was lying , drugs, drinking and then cheating, it totally devastated me, I have loved him my whole life and just wanted to be happy and in love and have a happy life together, a few monthsafter our divorce we got back together and not long into it he starts lying and doing things behind my back , I have done all I know to try to make a life with him with no avail, everything seemed to be going ok and one sunday morning he gets up goes to church and comes home preaching to me telling me if I’m not going to start living my life for god its not gonna work between us, he won’t even talk to me without yelling’are you gonna start livibg for the lord’ I believe in god and no I’m not perfect and not a bad person where do I go from here? Don’t see how this is right of him after all he’s put me through

    Posted by Ginger on October 21st, 2013 at 3:25 am

  20. Ann,I pray for you, with tears in my eyes, your story is like mine, lost everything, but I am still pray for my ex after 2 years, I love him and I know God knows, his family did this to me, I went mad, lost my self but I am still here. Waiting for him.

    Posted by Angelica on October 28th, 2013 at 5:07 am

  21. I was in a relationship for a year and a half and I was full of darkness and it wasn’t until my beloved boyfriend broke up with me and left for Israel until June 21st that I realized that and I have been seeking God ever since and trying to live through Him. Te lat time I saw him before he left he said there was a chance that we could get together when he comes back. He left September 12th and we would talk every couple of days for about two minutes. Then one week things really started to turn around and he talked to me every night and now it’s been over a week of no talking. I don’t know if I did something wrong but I keep praying that God will have him talk to me but he hasn’t and I’m scared that he’s talking to someone else. He’s not very religious but he is in Israel with his Jewish camp. I’m praying that he’ll talk to me soon. I’m praying that he doesn’t do anything with anyone else. I’m so scared that he’s just never gonna talk to me and move on. I don’t know what to do. I’m trying to keep my faith but he won’t be back for another 7 months and I don’t know how to keep this up. Please pray for us. I’ve never been so close to God but I feel like the darkness is getting to Alex somehow. Please help me.

    Posted by Samantha on November 6th, 2013 at 1:49 pm

  22. Prayer to mend our relationship.

    Posted by louise on November 7th, 2013 at 4:51 am

  23. Hi. My girlfriend through nine months(we knew each other from the past and had talked and flirted two months prior to becoming a couple). We had some issues during our relationship because of my sometimes judgemental attitude, stubbornness and temper plus her control, criticism, jealousy, neediness and temper. We both are christians but haven’t really practised it for some time. I’ve done a little more by going to church but I’ve been lukewarm too. She broke up with me in a time when we were very much in love so it surprised her family and my family. Actually it has hurt our respective families as well. I know it’s not a marriage but everyone, including her and me, thought that marriage would be the outcome. I understand some of her reasons for the break up but I know from other couples that they fight with the same or similar issues as us but they work it out. So can we and I pray to God to heal me and make me look more like Jesus and make me a better man. And for her to hear God and give me a chance to prove that I do love her and will be a better love for her(I did do many good things for her and to her but I also did wrong things). Please pray for us(her name is Majaand my name is Simon). And please pray for her family and my family. God bless you all. :)

    Posted by Simon Dilling Christiansen on November 9th, 2013 at 1:04 am

  24. Hey!My name is Bobby and I don’t think it’s by chance that I came in contact with this website.Me and my ex broke up almost 8 months ago and I’m still trying everything to get her back,over a year ago I was living a terrible life basically running the streets thinking that was the life to live,boy did the devil had me fooled,different women and fast money,but some how in that process I came in contact with God.I got saved and baptized and was doing good but over time I find myself still sleeping with women but then still praying for a God to restore my relationship with this beautiful woman that has my heart.The devil pries on weakness and I know it’s hindering me from my blessing because I know she is the one.I literally dream bout her,wish I could marry her and all,I have a great heart,but I struggle with so much,I know God is real but I keep falling for the same dumb mistakes,At the time I didn’t show her I really loved her and we were together for four years,man I miss her,would give the world to have another chance and when I talk with her it lifts me on a place that I can never reach,it’s like she brings hope and motivates me to get in do right she a new believer as well.We both found God in that process.But all that bad stuff I was doing is still heavily upon her heart,so I ask you to pray with and for me for God to restore our relationship and to take that desire from me,it only happens when I’m down and out,that’s when the devil creeps in on me,so please come in agreement with this prayer with me please,I don’t want to go to hell and I don’t want to lose this woman because I know she is my soulmate.

    Posted by Bobby on November 15th, 2013 at 12:14 pm

  25. Heavenly father please bless my relationship today. Havr us come out of this storm. Have him forgive me and let this storm make us stronget. Ijna

    Posted by lena on November 23rd, 2013 at 11:31 pm

  26. Please Pray for my situation…
    >
    > I split up with my girlfriend Amy in September, my Mother passed
    > away in June and a few weeks afterwards Amy and myself started to
    > have bad arguments. I was traumatized at the time and it was Amy
    > that started the arguments. At the time, I couldn’t forgive her for
    > the timing of starting those arguments. Sometimes the arguments
    > would go on for days, the relationship was fragile, and I started to
    > become very insecure about Amy leaving me. There were a few times
    > when she wanted to patch things up between us but I was so stubborn
    > I refused. When I wanted to patch things up she became just as
    > stubborn. When she wouldn’t talk to me I started to become
    > aggressive and verbally abusive toward her. I was taking drugs and
    > becoming very paranoid. There were a couple of occasions where I got
    > on top of Amy in her bed (we slept apart) and yelled at her whilst
    > holding her arms down. The were a couple of occasions where I kicked
    > her bedroom door open and started yelling
    > at her. Eventually Amy became afraid of me, moved out of our house
    > and back to her parents.
    >
    > I am a recovering alcoholic and I gradually started drinking,
    > sometimes it would be controlled but sometimes it would get out of
    > control and I’d start sending text messages that were not pleasant
    > or calling her and arguing over the phone. In the month of September
    > we were in contact with each other, but Amy had become weary about
    > starting the relationship again. She knew that I had drank alcohol
    > again which I had promised not to do (as this had caused us to split
    > up before. I had become verbally and physically abusive whist
    > intoxicated). I had started to get ‘mixed’ messages from Amy,
    > sometimes she would indicate that she missed me, still loved me and
    > wanted to patch the relationship up. We arranged to meet a few times
    > and she cancelled as she was busy starting up a business and she
    > would back off.
    >
    > One night I got drunk and phoned Amy. She knew that I was drunk and
    > I can’t remember much of our conversation. The next day I called Amy
    > and she didn’t want to talk so I got drunk again and went to her
    > parents home. When Amy saw me she got angry and upset. She was
    > annoyed that I was drunk and kept telling me to go. Her brother had
    > lied and told her I had threatened him with a knife so Amy called
    > the police. She kept saying things like “If you weren’t drunk then
    > maybe we could sort things out” and “perhaps we will talk in a few
    > weeks”. She kept crying. I eventually got arrested.
    >
    > Since then I have not been allowed to make any contact with Amy, it
    > has been over a month since this happened and I miss her more and
    > more each day. I am still deeply in love with her, and at times in
    > the relationship we had both wanted to marry and start a family
    > together. We fell for each other very quickly and for the most part
    > had a very loving and fun filled relationship. I have heard that Amy
    > ‘cried’ herself to sleep over how things used to be between us and
    > how I used to be in the relationship. We wanted so much together.
    >
    > I am fearful that I will go to jail for the offence as in my past I
    > have had severe alcohol problems and caused other offences. I have
    > been in jail twice already. I certainly don’t want to go back there,
    > if I do I will be destitute when I come out.
    >
    > I pray to God everyday that the relationship between Amy and I is
    > healed, I pray for God to plant a seed of forgiveness in Amy and
    > hopefully he will turn our hearts toward each other again. I love
    > her so much it’s just that I have made so many mistakes in the
    > relationship and I am desperate to be forgiven by God and by Amy. We
    > are both Christians, Amy said the salvation prayer in May and I have
    > been going to church for some years, but I backslide at times. She
    > believes, but has yet to know that Holy Spirit.
    >
    > Please pray for Amy and me everyday. I want nothing more than for
    > Amy and myself to be reunited in Jesus and to put Him first from
    > here on. I am sincere in my intentions toward Amy. I want to marry
    > her and start a family, and there was a time Amy wanted this also. I
    > know that if Amy ‘leaves’ my life forever I will never be able to
    > live with myself for pushing her away. I feel suicidal everyday.
    >
    > Please could you pray for Amy to find God also. Even though she said
    > the sinners prayer she is having trouble in ‘finding him’ and she
    > has attended churches that are void of the Holy Spirit. She believes
    > it should all be orthodox and this is not the case. Please please
    > pray for her each day, please set up a prayer chain for us both.
    >
    > Her full name is Amy Elizabeth Reardon.
    >
    > Thank you and God bless you and bless you again.
    >
    > Mark Thomas

    TWO)

    Please Pray for Salvation…

    I hope that you will pray for my ex girlfriend to be saved.

    Her name is Amy Reardon and I met Amy last December. Prior to meeting Amy, I had prayed to meet someone that I loved and someone that loved me also and shortly after I had prayed, Amy had contacted me online. We met soon after and we fell for each other almost immediately and had (to begin with) a very good relationship. I told her that I was in love with her and she said that she felt the same. These feelings were quite new to both of us and both of us had previous relationships that were quite bad.

    Unfortunately after we moved in together our relationship went sour for various reasons. I am a recovering alcoholic, and after finding out somethings about Amy’s past that I didn’t like, I became very jealous and relapsed. I was both verbally and physically abusive toward Amy and we soon split up.

    At the end of May, Amy wanted us to meet. We hadn’t had any contact for sometime, other than one meeting where I was intoxicated and self harmed in a jealous fit. We resumed our relationship and it went so well, much like it had been at the start, I know we both wanted the right things from each other.

    Unfortunately my Mother passed away in June and shortly afterwards Amy and I had some terrible arguments. We have split up again, and I know that Amy never wants me in her life again. From my perspective, I will always love Amy, however I am aware that God loves her far more than I do.

    Amy is truly a unique, kind and caring person. She has a beautiful heart. She hasn’t had a very easy life, she has had a very abusive and deceitful Father growing up and her Mother hasn’t been much better. There are serious issues, lies and deceit throughout her family and I know that this pulls Amy in all directions. Amy has had issues with drink and drugs, whilst she has never an addict, alcohol has led to her having various problems and making various mistakes in her life.

    She has suffered various horrible incidents. She has almost been date raped, she was picked on for being under developed as a teenager and one of her close friends committed suicide four years ago, something that Amy blames herself for. Amy has some anger issues and these certainly spill out at times. She loses her temper quite easily. I know that she doesn’t have a true friend in the world, most of her friends are male and they all have ulterior motives.

    Amy has said the ‘salvation prayer’ but since saying this she has struggled to have any encounter with the Holy Spirit. She has been to a Pentecostal church once, but left angry and upset because she wasn’t prayed for. Since then I know she has attended very traditional services, void of joy and void of God’s love.

    Amy is desperately searching for something in life. Her family and friends are a big hindrance in her life, and they are just not good people. to top things off she is very disappointed in me and hurt about how our relationship turned out.

    Please pray for Jesus to claim Amy’s life, she is a wonderful person but very lost and angry. She wants to be happy although I fear that she never will be.

    Please pray for her?

    Mark Thomas

    Posted by Mark Thomas on November 29th, 2013 at 11:48 pm

  27. I need prayer To restore my family together and for my ex to soften his heart and peace of mind and just leave all my worries to the one who created me and luvs me like no other please lift me up in prayer

    Posted by lisette on December 20th, 2013 at 12:53 pm

  28. Just need some helping prayer for my relationship. I have prayed on my own and believe in the power of prayer. So more. For us will be even more powerful. God knows my wants with my relationship. I pray constantly for his help.. But, I want to take this time to ask God to fix all your relationships . Dear God , I ask that you fix all theses relationships in Jesus name. I ask you to heal the broken hearts and fill the emptiness with your love . I pray all who need to be held will feel your hugs all those who need to be feel love will feel it also. Any need they have until your blessings on them come ,I ask they receive in Jesus name Amen amen. I Love you Jerika. I love you Jesus.

    Posted by Al on January 15th, 2014 at 11:24 am

  29. What a remarkable story, Im also going through so much in my broken relationship with the mother of my child (future wife) :) I devoted my life to god and im still seeking the LORD even if its not his time to rebuild our relationship. I have so much Faith in him. But if anyone would want to contact me so i can feel a little more at ease and maybe yall can give me more HOPE with the word of GOD. My favorite verse is

    “MATTHEW 21-22″ YOU CAN PRAY FOR ANYTHING, AND IF YOU HAVE FAITH, YOU WILL RECEIVE IT.

    “MARK 11-24″ I TELL YOU, YOU CAN PRAY FOR ANYTHING, AND IF YOU BELIEVE THAT YOU’VE RECEIVED IT, IT WILL BE YOURS.

    And i really do believe that OUR FATHER will answer my prayers.

    my email is mike13.my@gmail.com
    feel free to contact me at anytime.

    Posted by michael on January 17th, 2014 at 6:53 am

  30. Please join me and pray that God in His love and mercy restore my relationship. We had a break reason because he had no peace about it. This is 10 months now and we are not back,i spoke with him about it and he said he still has resistance about it,and as for him it is over. We both love God,and i trust God to do a miracle,i dont care his responce to me,i am looking at GOD alone,i so much trust Him to do the imposible for me. Lord,please do it for me,it is only You who has the final say in all situations. I dont know were the resistance is coming from,buy You O Lord knows my heart,i am convinced and i love him so much,Dear Lord You can trust me with Your son. Give him back to me i pray thee o Lord,amen

    Posted by Hannah on January 19th, 2014 at 9:20 pm

  31. Hey Hannah, I have a similar situation. My boyfriend broke up with me three months back and I know it dpes not add up to you 10 months but I can relate to the pain and emptiness that follows each passsing day. And mine got back with his ex. I dont even know how to feel. Deep within me I know thrre is no one going to make me laugh like he did and care about me like he did. We clicked so much on so many different levels. He was everything I was and everything I was not. He inapired me to be a better person and he also said he does not understand why with me things are so easy and the universe itsself seems to be in agreement with us. I have so much assurance that he is mine but each day I doubt alittle more. I came across a book “Lady in Waiting” by Jackie Kendall and it is blessing me. Read it too. It said we need to first find completeness in Christ. Then we can get spouses who complement us. Not complete us. Until we realise that our spouses just complement us and not complete us we will never have that void filled. The truth is we are many feeling like this but we have to leave it all at the cross. Let God write our stories. I know I still ask for a sign everyday I wait for tlhe phone call that is just not coming. To be honest I know I pray everyday and read my Bible too but I know there is still a part of me thats holding on. A part of me that is still trying to tell God what it has to be. I am still trying to convince God that he is the one for. I need to let go. We need to let go COMPLETELY no strings attached. Let let God write our love stories. So Hannah come on hold my hand and lets leave it all at the cross. They could be the ones then again they probably are not. Which is a painful truth. We can still pray but lets not tell God how story should go. They will find us waiting for them in Christ. Not us making them realise it.

    Posted by Gladys on January 23rd, 2014 at 9:25 pm

  32. Please pray for God to reconcile Steve Mbugua and me and to heal & restore the broken relationship between us. God has confirmed to my spirit that Steve and I were meant to be in each other’s lives. Every day and night I pray about Steve and for Steve. I truly love him from the depth of my heart and serenity of my soul, the way I’ve never loved any man before. Pray for our Lord Jesus Christ to touch and heal Steve’s heart, to take the anger and resentment he feels towards me away, and to fill his heart with the true love he once felt for me and showed me. Also pray for God to anoint me with His grace that I may be patient to wait on Him to heal Steve and lead him back into my life. I thank our Lord Jesus Christ in advance, for I believe where two or three are gathered in His name, He is there and He has already heard and answered this prayer. In Jesus’ powerful and healing name.

    And this I promise to God, our Heavenly Father, that when God leads Steve back into my life, I will live to thank Him for his faithfulness in bringing this forth, all the days of my life; and I will love Steve and guard his heart, with all that I am, in sickness and in health, for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, till death do us part. Glory and Praise be to the Most High Ever-living God!!!

    God bless you all who will support me in prayer.

    Posted by Jacqueline Nyawira on February 18th, 2014 at 4:06 pm

  33. Please pray for me I dont know if im trew a depressing or jus tell me something,thisbis whats going on well the love of my life wich I.lasted 5 years with is attending my church but thats not yet da hurting part for.me his attending church with his now family wife n 2daughters he even sit across me and im all sitting with my parents im still single 8 years have pased by already what to do im confused sad depress speachless n dont know wat to.do he does say hi to my parents and I help in the church childrens ministry and feel like oh i wonder when is he gonna drop of his little girl in my class, one little girl is abt 3years the other one abt 5months what is it that God is trying to tell me or what, it did hurt in da beginning alot more but I feel it still hurts n bothers me.I sure feel blessed cuz I know he continue Gods path couse I I introduced him to christ but tell me what to do or help me find out what God wants for my life im confusse and in shock out of all da churches he landed on mine and he lives across town. My family n I have about 8years witch is the time we been apart going to this church.

    Posted by berenice on March 3rd, 2014 at 12:44 am

  34. hello..truly GOD is an awesome God.After reading all of your messages I prayed for each one of you. God bless us all..

    Posted by Yham on March 9th, 2014 at 7:07 pm

  35. Hello All,
    My ex-fiance and I have been together for 12 years. We were engaged for about 7to8 years of that time. In 2012 he just called one day and broke up with me. Ever since, I have found out that he dumped me for someone new, and they are also engaged now (2013).
    In the beginning I prayed fervently, and I also believed that you can ask God for anything, and if you have faith, you will receive it.
    While I do believe that God can change someones heart, I also believe he gives us free will, and if the other party do not want to come to the table, your prayers won’t do much but deplete your energy. Trust me I have been there.
    I loved this man so much, and I did so much to support him. Recently I have been praying for reconciliation again, but honestly if God wanted to happen, it would’ve by now? I just wish things could be so different, because I still love him and want to be with him.

    Posted by Hope on March 9th, 2014 at 9:54 pm

  36. Pleas please pray for me and my broken relationship. We broke up in October in February he told me he wanted to work things out because he still loved me. It has been a very bumpy road I fell for everything he told me then 2 weeks later he has a gf he just met about 2 months ago. I’m confuse I feel so lost. I need a prayer! After everything we been thru I still love him. I can’t dislike him. I’ve never loved no one like I love him!

    Posted by J on March 25th, 2014 at 9:53 pm

  37. First of all, I have prayed for all the people commented here before I.
    The love of my life left me on this valentine’s day, and I’m jobless too. I cry for him everyday, I want him back in my life and forever this time, as my husband. I don’t know when will it happen. I’m waiting for God’s miracle. I want to trust God fully, I want him to take the charge of life now. I’m not finding any way out, please pray for me and for my relationship. Please pray to the Great Lord to touch my sweetheart’s heart with love and make him love me again, let him know how much I love him and what pain I’m going through after he left me.
    I love him so much. And I love God too <3
    Thanks for reading and for praying for me.

    Posted by Rama on April 5th, 2014 at 11:27 pm

  38. Brothers and Sisters in Christ,

    First, I want to say I’m praying for each of you. Prayer is love, prayer is power, and when we pray God moves. Secon, I want to encourage you. God is your father, your daddy, and when your heart breaks his does as well. He sees you, hears you, walks with your cries with you. No matter how your situations turn out, know that what is happening in your life right now breaks God’s heart. He may have another plan for you, but he knows you are in pain and he wants to hold you where you are. Cry to him and he will comfort.

    I’d like to share my story and ask for your prayer. In October of 2012, I met a girl. The second I laid eyes on her God moved I my heart and told me this is the one. Not talking about marriage. But God’s presence of my heart Made it clear he wanted us together. We dated until early May 2013. She has been through a lot of pain and runs away from it. God wants to heal her heart but she won’t let him. I’m not saying this judging, I understand where she’s at because of my past. But God gave me a vision of what he wants to do with her life. Satan took away her joy and hardened her heart with pain, but God is breaking open her heart, clearing away the scars and renewing her joyful spirit. I get goosebumps every time I think about what he showed me.

    First prayer request: pray for her to allow God into her heart to heal and restore her

    She broke up with me because she wasn’t ready for a serious relationship. God needs to heal her before she is ready to give her heart to someone. I understand that. She broke up without a reason, she doesn’t even understand this about herself. Here’s where things get difficult and where I need prayer.

    I have a spiritual gift. God shows me who people are underneath their mask. He shows me where he wants to take them. He allows me to understand people even when they don’t understand themselves. And he gives me words to tell them to help point them to him.

    After we broke up I got over it after a while. But then in august 2013 god took a walk with me and told me he wanted me and this girl back together, that he was taking her in a journey of healing and he wanted to bring us together for it. It took me a month of reading scripture, praying and speaking with mentors till I finally accepted that this was what God wanted me to do. I asked him what he wanted next and he said wait. I won’t bore you with details, but flash forward to February 2014 and he has me ministering to her through words, verses and prayer. Then at the beginning of March he told me to ask her out again. I knew she’d say no and I fought God about it but I mean when God tells you to do something you do it.

    She said no and now is with another guy. I have faith and trust in what God sis doing, I believe this is his plan, I have hope in his promise and know that he will complete his work. But it hurts a lot to wait for someone who rejects you over and over and over again, not to mention this all sounds like a crazy ex who needs to move on and not use God as an excuse to harass a girl. And I know some of you will come to that conclusion after reading this. I would to if God hadn’t shown me over and over that this is his voice and this is where he wants me right now. But for those who will, please pray that I will have the faith, trust, hope and endurance to finish this race strong. Pray that I would have patience to wait for God’s timing. And pray that he would help me through the pain.

    May the peace of Christ be with you always

    Posted by WanderingSoul on April 8th, 2014 at 3:20 am

  39. Wondering soul,
    you will be in my prayes . I know how hard it is to wait for the one who rejects you, I’m going through this but I’ve faith in God and I know he will bring him back to me at the right time.

    Posted by Rama on April 9th, 2014 at 4:20 am

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