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Feb 18

God heals relationships

BEFORE October 2008
UP until three months ago, I was still suffering emotionally and was in a state of depression, feeling unhappy most of the time, carrying a heavy heart filled with anxiety. I was going about my daily activities with the feeling of emptiness within me and of being unloved. I do have many friends, some very, very close friends who gave very good advices, my family & siblings (local & overseas) who gave me so much support and yet I was unhappy with everything in my life! It was so unbearable that I had to resort to fortune tellers and to feng shui masters, numerologists, astrologists to speak comfort into my life.

I thought they could tell me what to do that could change my life and make me happy. There was even one fortune teller who predicted correctly (seeing that look that hung on my face); that I suffered from ‘mental torture’ and the solution was to write into a daily diary. I followed her advice but the more I wrote; the more I cried and wallowed in self-pity that life has dealt me such a bad hand!

My relationship with my husband was at its worst; we hardly spoke to each other whilst walking in and out of the same bedroom and the same house. Words exchanged between us were never longer than 3 sentences; the criticisms he directed to me or the ‘verbal missiles’ (harsh words) I launched at him would drive the ‘rift’ between us wider and deeper. These were the daily highlights of our household. He found solace in “drinking sessions” at places where pretty young girls are aplenty; they would do anything for a free drink, dinner and RM100 ringgit tip? And of course, my revenge and my escapade was to find love and simulate that love elsewhere.

At home, I was always very ‘irritable’ and jumped at the way my husband and children spoke to/with me .I recall that everyday I wanted to die so as to end all the emotional pain I was experiencing. I was on the verge of divorcing my husband to end the emptiness and unhappiness I lugged within me everyday. I even thought to myself, that if I can’t make him happy I might as well release him to some other women who can make him happy, and vice versa.

So what happened that transformed me into what / who I am today? I now have so much joy & peace in me that amaze me beyond words. I am confident that my hubby loves me and I love him (like when we first met) and we have so much more patience with each other. Come to think of it, we’ve not had any disagreement(s) since November 2008! This is record-breaking!

AFTER November 2008
IT’S GOD’S HEALING of RELATIONSHIP which I am experiencing AND GOD SHOWED ME THE WAY! IT’S A MIRACLE…PRAISE GOD! IT HAS TO BE! In the past, I did things my way. And everyday I carried emotional pain, bitterness, unhappiness. But WHEN I LEARNED TO DO IT God’s way, I noticed that things just changed for the better.

In the month of October 2008, after being invited by a close friend to Amazing Grace Christian Fellowship Church and after 3 sessions of reading God’s word and praying to God (with/by Pastor James Doss) I made a commitment and surrendered my business, my relationships, my family, my life back to GOD! (I had accepted CHRIST & was baptized in water & by the Holy Spirit when I was 17 years old, but back-slided and the ‘worldly’ temptations took me away from GOD).

I prayed to God to heal my ‘intimate’ relationship with my husband because I have tried on my own efforts BUT could not do it; not only did GOD heal my relationship with my hubby, in November 2008, God even wiped away my memory and the bitterness I had buried in my heart – memories of my husband being with other women, when he abandoned me.

Only GOD knew ‘what’ to fix in the both of us. Previously, I would not allow my husband to touch me, because I would feel so disgusted. But now God has blessed both of us!

Earlier, I could not understand this ‘miracle” GOD had done between my husband and me. How a ‘broken’ relationship can turnaround 360 degrees over night. Was it because I prayed to GOD and asked Him to help me in my most desolate moment? If that were so, I have prayed so many times before, that same prayer to ask GOD to help me, over the last 15 years but nothing happened. So why did it happen now? What was different?

Then GOD explained it to me:-

  1. At Pastor James’ Sunday morning service.
    Genesis 41:51
    – Joseph named his firstborn Manasseh and said “It is because GOD has made me forget all my trouble and all my father’s household”.
    Genesis 41:52
    – The second son he named Ephraim and said, “It is because GOD has made me fruitful in the land of my suffering.”

    What GOD did to Joseph (thousands of years ago) GOD did for me! GOD made me forget all my toil and all my bitterness; and is blessing me in my own ‘house of my affliction’. Only God could have wiped out those hurting memories which I, with my human mind tried to erase BUT failed. PRAISE GOD FOR HIS FAITHFULNESS!!

  2. God pointed to me in His words (the bible):-
    Matthew 6:32
    – For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them.
    Matthew 6:33
    – But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.

Now I can make the connection, I recalled, when Pastor James prayed with me (3 months ago), pastor reminded me to get right with GOD and I did just that immediately, that same night when I told God I want to live my life His way (not my way) from that day forward! And what’s more wonderful is that GOD (through His prophecies spoken to me at Amazing Grace Church on 31 Dec 2008) told me that he has not finished with His blessings upon me, there are more to come and whatever I ask of Him, which is according to His will in heaven, He will give it to me! I praise GOD for His LOVE for me!!

I’m not hurting anymore, I wake every morning thanking GOD and I go to bed every night thanking GOD that he’s giving me so much peace, joy, happiness and love in my heart.

YOU CAN HAVE THAT TOO; if you are currently in depression/feeling suicidal and hurting from relationships!! Allow God to touch your life and work that miracle for you too!

I have submitted my husband to God in prayer and I’ve asked God to deal with him, as he’s answerable to God (not to me). Now when I look at my husband and children, I praise GOD because I was that close to loosing my beloved family. GOD stopped me from taking that route of ‘divorce’ and healed my relationship with my husband.

God taught me that all I had to do was so simple – JUST walk ‘RIGHT’ before Him and to TRUST Him to do the rest in HIS WAY and in His timing! Now that I have tasted that, I assure you, THAT IS THE ONLY WAY!

John 15:7
“If you abide in Me (Jesus) and My words abide in you, you will ask what you desire and it shall be done for you”.


by Sister Suzana
8th January 2009

Posted by AmazingGrace. Filed under Testimonies.

173 Responses to “God heals relationships”

  1. Dear Lord Jesus I want to thank you for everything u have done in my life. God am praying for the restoration of my relationship i don’t know what made him leave me for another woman but u only know this guy loved me so much i just pray that u soften his hurt n change his mind so he would love me back again the way he used to i know with u oh lord everything is possible and that’s y am not going to give up on him. Lord hear my prayer.

    Posted by Lyn k on June 9th, 2015 at 12:47 am

  2. Please lord bring back my husband Carlos and restore our marriage in Jesus name Amen

    Posted by andrea on June 10th, 2015 at 12:55 pm

  3. I want my boyfriend to come back to me. It’s 6 months now I can’t still let go. Please pray that God should bring him back to me and heal this pain. Kemi

    Posted by kemi on June 12th, 2015 at 2:59 am

  4. please pray that god will work things out in my relationship. I need a miracle and breakthrough today. I am stressed, cant eat, don’t sleep and I am pregnant and he doesn’t seem to care about this baby. lord just show him we are supposed to be together. lord show him that his mom would not be happy with how he is doing me. lord show him that we need to be a family. keep him faithful and if there is someone he is talking to I pray you put a stop to it now.

    Posted by amy on June 18th, 2015 at 4:56 am

  5. please pray for me, I have 2 kids with my girlfriend but she’s not a believer and things are not working out for me and her, i love her and I don’t want to lose her. Please pray for us please pray for us :( :( :( please.

    Posted by Joachim on June 18th, 2015 at 8:37 am

  6. Please Lord,bring Andrew back into my life! I love him dearly and have faith that you will restore our relationship! I really miss him and i know he still loves me! I know your the only one with control over this and that is why I give you my trust! Always trust in God

    Posted by Andrea on June 19th, 2015 at 8:09 am

  7. dear God i pray that my girlfriend manana motshewa shale to come back to me,i love her very much and i’ve promised her i will be with her for the rest of our lives and i will fight for her,i love her oh Lord please bring her back to me,i have tried with my own ability but nothing works please help me oh God in Jesus name amen

    Posted by motsamai taole on June 25th, 2015 at 11:11 pm

  8. Lord, he said he doesn’t feel the same way anymore but my heart still loves and yearns for him. We might have done things wrong but i’m sure You Lord are a forgiver… forgive us and revive us again Lord. I feel broken, pained and hurt without him. Heal our relationship. Take away his fears and give us hope of new beginnings. Restore us and bring us back together again. This I ask in thanksgiving, Amen!

    Posted by Feyi on July 4th, 2015 at 7:59 pm

  9. My boyfriend and I broke up because he’s suffering from debt and money problems our love is real the passion and care we have for each other is unreal but he’s so drepssed and wants to be alone he says he doesn’t feel like a man and he can’t concentrate on myself and bettering him self when he’s in a relationship and I don’t know what to do anymore it’s killing me I’ve never been so in love with anyone like I am with him I’ve never felt so much care and love from someone like I did when I was with him God please I beg you with my whole hear take away this pain and hurt he’s feeling help him get back on track you brought him into my life for a reason please take away his anxiety and bad thoughts and only keep positive thoughts in his mind and heart I beg you please I just want his happiness. AMEN!!

    Posted by Jessica on July 5th, 2015 at 1:07 am

  10. All these sad hearts have posted here…made me cry. I hope you all find your loves return to you quickly♡
    I loved a man in stl named Tony Barron. Its been 2 months now . I miss him & cry. I hurt him with unkind words because he had said equally unkind things. I am sorry for it. You say wrong things when you’re upset. I wish the Lord would show Tony salvation cuz I was an awful example & that bothers me. I failed God. I wish we could restore and walk with Christ learning together how Jesus wants. That would more wonderful than anything in the world. To honor Christ together .

    Posted by sales girl on July 9th, 2015 at 3:02 pm

  11. Dear Lord soften my fiance”s heart and let him not leave me for another woman.Lord please send me miracle today in Jesus” name i pray

    Posted by flavia on July 15th, 2015 at 4:34 am

  12. Lord I come with a heavy heart asking that you restore my relationship with my girlfriend Regina Harrison. Lord I love her so much and want her back in my life I know you are the only one who can do this. Touch her heart lord and make us whole in our relationship all these thing I ask in your name. If it be your will father I would be so grateful to have Regina back in my life. I love her so much lord and cannot see myself without her. Tim

    Posted by Tim on July 15th, 2015 at 4:55 pm

  13. Dear Lord I come to you right now asking that you will make a way in my relationship. My child’s father has possibly created another family behind my back and it’s weighing heavy on my heart and mind. We’ve both been through some things and lost our way but I’m praying that it’s not true and that we can move on with our hopes and dreams together with our son. He’s the one i truly love and want and he feels the same for me. Please God, work it out. I give it all to you. Amen!

    Posted by Bridgette on July 16th, 2015 at 1:08 pm

  14. Dear Lord, I pray to to restore my relationship with Chantell. My life is yours completely and I put my faith and trust in you. I pray you take care of her, touch her heart and guide her back to me. I pray that if it is your will that we are not to be together that you take the pain, loss, and misery of losing her away and bring me peace very soon. You know our hearts, what is best for both of us, and I pray you bring her home to me and allow us to pledge our everlasting love before you, and bless us with a long, loving, marriage and and life together. She’s the love of my life God, I do not want anyone else. I promise to live the life you want me to live. All I ask is for you to reawaken her love for me, her passion for us, and her faith in you. In Jesus’ name Amen.

    Posted by Mark on July 18th, 2015 at 2:20 am

  15. God I ask for your help in healing our broken King term relationship, the intimacy was never an issue, it’s the trust, God please help him get over my past, he
    Guide him into realizing his happiness is much more important than others, God please allow him to be proud of the women he fell in love with, also I ask for prayer for him to be stronger when faced with temptation, God help him find forgiveness in his heart for the things I’ve done and the oain I’ve csused him. I also pray for myself to learn to have patience when dealing with his issues, God please help me to stop allowing myself to get so angry and doing extreme things out of anger. God we love each other and we have been through so many things, but seems like everytime we become closer, something sets us back, God please help us grow , help us prepare for our future, we both adore each other after numerous years, and we just need special prayer, in Jesus name I pray

    Posted by Long Termlover on July 27th, 2015 at 2:14 pm

  16. Ahh it is heart breaking to see all the posts from People who pray for their relationship to be restored. Please trust in the fact that this is where The Lord wants you right now. It is all in his hands and he knows just what needs to be done. He is asking you to trust him. Can you do that? Or are you looking at the storm all around you?? YOu need to stop looking at the natural and look to Jesus. He knows what he is doing. Do not be fooled by the enemy, do not listen to his voice, listen only to you Lord God. Look beyond your marriage and into yourself and see what he is trying to teach you. Remember to rejoice in your trials as it is stretching your faith. Be happy you are being tested and molded. You can not go through the fire with doubts and fear you must trust in God, He will turn what was meant for your harm to your good. I do not know if your relationships will be restored or not, but I do know that God has it under control and there is a reason for your dark season. YOU may have put your relationship before God and made it an idol, you may even be making your restoration journey an idol. Stop and give it all to God let him know you trust him to take care of you and your family. Trust that he knows the best way to fix your life. Lean not on your own understanding. God has called your for this very purpose. He is trying to show you something, it is in our weakness that we are made strong. Do not look at your spouses sin, look at yourself and see what you need to change to make you worthy of God. NOT worthy of your spouse. It is very easy to say you are Christian, but it is very very hard to walk the walk. Memorize the teachings of Jesus and see that you have to forgive and yes forget. You can not return evil for evil. Even if your spouse is not loving, you need to treat them like they were. NOt as easy as it sounds. There is so much more, I can just ask you to please read the word daily, learn what is means to be a christian Wife or Husband. You might be very surprised and what you learn. Love God with all your heart, it is when you are at a point where you trust God enough to give it all over to him, and not contact your spouse leave them to God that you will see the power of God at work in your life. I know I sound preachy and I do not know what the future holds but I do know that what ever it is, it is for the Glory of God. And do not let any one tell you your spouse has free will, there is way too many cases in scripture that God turns the hearts or forces people to do his will as he wants. It is his world and he can do what he wants. Do not complain be content knowing your God has you and your spouse in his hands.

    Posted by Laurie on July 31st, 2015 at 4:29 am

  17. please pray that my relationship with B can be healed and restored. Please pray that he will be home tonight and show him we need to be a family. I believe God brought us together. Lord please just bring him back home tonight. soften his heart, lord let him miss me. lord let him think of nothing but me. lord if he is doing anything unfaithful or wrong i ask god that you put a stop to it now in the name of jesus. i plead the blood of jesus over this relationship.take the fear of commitment out of him lord. please god please.

    Posted by amy on August 10th, 2015 at 12:53 am

  18. Please pray for me so that my relationship with buthelezi will be reconciled in Jesus’s name

    Posted by sylvia on August 11th, 2015 at 4:46 am

  19. Hi beloved , am curently brokeup wt mi exboyfriend After got him cheating with another woman , bt am trusting that God wt bring hm bk.his name is Mdu Nkosi

    Posted by mathapelo mazibuko on August 13th, 2015 at 5:18 am

  20. Kindly pray that God wil reunite us again me and mi lover Mdu Nkosi

    Posted by mathapelo mazibuko on August 13th, 2015 at 5:21 am

  21. Please pray that my relationship with my ex boyfriend be reconciled! His depression made him indifferent and break up with me. He said he did not want long term relationships any longer and is seeing other women. Please Lord, heal his heart and return him to me.

    Posted by K on August 15th, 2015 at 4:59 am

  22. My partner and I have been having problems for the past 5 months he says he needs space and I am afraid that the space can cause us to drift apart. This has leaded me into depression. i As God to intervene in all the problems that we facing and for God to restore our loving relationship. I find it hard to even wake up in the morning and going to work even concentration on my studies it hard. I am loosing weight am now always sick. i ask God to speak in his heart on my behalf to remind him of what when when we first meet the plans we had of getting married and staring a family. I ask God in the space he needs that while I wait for him to be strong and be patient. I also ask God that the space he needs that he must not allow the devil to get in between us and do things that will hurt this relationship.

    Posted by Jabulile Gama on August 17th, 2015 at 8:53 pm

  23. Dear Lord u know that my love has gone away from my life now its 10 months, but I still love her so much I don’t forget her even a single second of my life. My dear lord please bring her back speak in her heart I want to I m waiting her please lord hear my crying please help me.

    Posted by Paul Gajmer on August 29th, 2015 at 6:08 pm

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